The second stream should be accessible from the System -> Streams menu and you should see all of the streams you have. Two streams allows you to broadcast at different bitrates, so one for people with a good connection and another for mobile users.
1) airtime pro offers a service with 2 streams. In the interface I don't see any way to access the second stream.What exactly doe the second stream buy me?
Deleting it from the show doesn't delete it from the library.
2) Is there really no way to remove a song from the playlist of a current (now playing) show besides deleting it? Really?
You schedule them into your show.
3) how do I intervene in a scheduled show for set breaks, etc? Is it possible?
Setting up dynamic smart blocks would be your best bet. I made a video on it a while back you can find here:
4) is there some sort of autodj function? It kind of looks like I should be able to do it with dynamic boxes, but the method isn't obvious.
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